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| Aphrodite |
Do you find yourself looking like a gray and rainy Tuesday, completely overshadowed by a Saturday night in stiletto pumps? Those days of catching a stranger’s (or your partner’s) eye, are tucked away with old college memorabilia. More often than not, women become trapped in their roles as mothers, wives, and employees and lose sight of who they are as individuals. The inner goddess that resides in all women lay gasping for breaths of air underneath sweatpants and messy ponytails. The other group of “goddess-violators” restrict themselves with an overly-conservative life of boring colors and prudish behaviors. That pretty bottle of perfume on the vanity appears to have been replaced with “attraction repellant”. It is as if many women have forgotten how to have spontaneous fun, be playful, and dare I say it….Be Sexy!! If you fall into one of these categories, you might be wondering: How can I release the goddess within me? How can I enhance my irresistibility and attraction?
· Firstly, it is essential to reshape the way you view yourself. If you do not see yourself as beautiful, confident, and desirable, others will follow suit. This is comparable to attempting to sell a product that you don’t believe in, yet expecting a consumer to purchase it. Promote yourself!
· The next step is to recognize and embrace your inner child. The inner child gives off a youthful glow and most importantly, it contributes to your overall happiness. Indulge in childhood games and activities that bring about laughter and excitement. Turning the music up and dancing wildly to an up-tempo musical beat can easily grant access to absolute freedom. Not only is this step “eye-watering” fun, it is medicine for the soul. Amuse yourself!
· The third step involves trying something new. Whether you decide to try horseback riding, learn a new language, take a cooking class, or join a club, it will be a breath of fresh air to introduce a new aspect of living to your schedule. In this step, the challenge is to offer up a “slow yes”, instead of a “fast no”. Create a list of “things you must do before it’s all over” and GO FOR IT! Dare yourself!
· The fourth step is to go on dates….with you. Get to know who you are, what your likes and dislikes are, dreams and aspirations, fears and issues. In this process, your self-esteem is likely to increase because you are paying more attention to you and your self-worth. Kick your feet up to enjoy chocolate ice cream on a sugar cone while you reflect on everything you have overcome in Life. Then, enjoy you in that moment, in between licks of sweetness. Feel the soft wind against your skin, a gentle breeze surrounding wisps of your hair, and recognize how brilliant and unique you are. There is not one person in this world, past, present or future that will walk in your shoes, look through your eyes, and impact the environment in the exact way that you have done so. Award yourself!
· The fifth step is fun! Get sex-ified. Every woman has sexiness and spice; some are just better than others at putting it on display. The key is finding channels in which you can express this sexiness and enhancing it to the fullest. Getting sex-ified is not to be confused with being promiscuous or wearing “late night corner” get-up. It is the celebration of a woman’s curves in a sensual way. Standing before a mirror and watching how your body moves to music, honing in on your senses, and opening yourself up to your environment would be a great way to start the sex-ification process. Something as simple as wearing matching lingerie underneath your clothing can serve as a self-esteem booster shot. Be hot for yourself!
The goddess in you is fun, flirty, sensual, and knowledgeable. She is not afraid to try a new cuisine, after going salsa dancing on a Thursday night. There is a flicker of youth in her eye, and a hint of tease in her smile. All you have to do is release her so that she may take you for the liveliest ride of your Life.
